~LE TEMPS S'ECLAIRCIT~

放！

2010-02-10T21:08:00.000-08:00

是时候放手了。。。

jia you ...

2009-12-12T09:44:00.000-08:00

recently...

what's in her blog is complicated...

she's not feeling happy...
she's not in a good condition anymore...

hmm...

i can't really say something to you...
but sincerely i really do hope that you're able to cheer up...

but if you're able to give me another chance...
i'll really treat u the very best that i can...

jia you...

ChriSTmasS

2009-12-10T23:58:00.000-08:00

CHRISTMAS IS NEAR !

but....

we have no snow...

we have no winter...

we have only few (or even none) christmas carol at our door...

hah... sounds bored here in malaysia right?

everytime when christmas is near...

i'll certainly feeling emo...

for none other reasons...

im thinking of her again...

guessed that you all knew who she is ^__^

but i never described our journey rite ^_^

we've started our journey 22nd~
had our first outdoor date at 24th christmas eve...

which is at the PURE~

tat night... Alvin drove us there with his elephant car ^__^
along with Arwin...
crazy night =)
haha =D

(erm... we had actually d only date together...)

but d story is really romantic =P

hah~

tat night! Alvin's car broke down \o/
on d mid of road and NIGHT!
(ofcz ppl wont go pure at day time = =U)

so they went to get petrol for d car...
luckily d station was only 1km ahead and still opened~

tats d night v had our quiet time alone in d car ^_^

erm...

what i wanted to say is....

though there's no snow...we have still polysterines

though there's no winter... we have still airconditioned rooms

though christmas carol is not popular in Malaysia...
we're still able to manage ourselves carol CDs...

but... when you're not by my side, there's none other girl that able to take over your place...

im waiting... im still waiting...

Banting Methodist Kindergarten's Graduation

2009-12-06T10:40:00.000-08:00

its a video showing great effort....

of every teacher

and

of every student.....

to the world at large that how they're really committed themselves

in making this graduation a success =)

efforts are to be appreciated!

but of most importantly...

God's guidance and grace must not be forgotten

for letting every each bits of the process a success!

it is Him who gave us strength and wisdom to make out the flow smoothly!

Glory be to Him most high...

Yean Rui Singing 爱是怀疑 by Eason Chen

2009-12-06T06:27:00.000-08:00

Been grateful for him calling me and to give me chances to be his guitarist...

he has indeed great vocal~

and tell u what...

He has never been to any singing classes before!

awesome right!

Enjoy ^__^

“少敲了一下”

2009-12-02T10:06:00.000-08:00

省略摘至杨玉卿，《关于爱的重量》
read it from aik leng's blog...

“少敲了一下”

他们在大学读书时是对恋人，后来因为一件小事闹翻了。
毕业后天各一方，走过了自己人生的旅程
不时怀念年轻时的恋情
偶然相遇

他问她：[那天晚上我来敲你的门，你为什么不开门？]
她说：[我在门后等你]
[等我？等什么？]
[等你敲第十下才开门，可是你只敲了九下]

都后悔了
她后悔自己的执坳，她完全可以在他敲第九下时开门，甚至在他离去时把他叫回来

他，如梦初醒，原来那扇门没有关死，可为什么他不继续敲下去呢？

人生有很多的错失，并不是必然的，也有偶然的
就在固执地坚持了不该坚持的
错在放弃了不该放弃的

如果
你想让门外的那个人进来
就及时开门吧

如果
你觉得门内的那个人值得你的追求
那就执着的继续敲他的门吧
直到把门打开
直到确认
那门是你打不开的

a back to future~

2009-12-01T19:42:00.000-08:00

why am i quoting it as a "back to future" project?

err... you see im having this dream since last year...
while in the middle of this process..
i've decided back there to "move on"
however, I can't and by that reason i've deleted my MSN messenger forever = =U
so to speak "forever"...

LAST MONTH... my phone got stolen...
on that very moment im feeling depressed...
not because of i've lost my phone...
but because i've lost ALL my contacts = =U

but thinking of it...
i've not been connected with that one person since then...
msn,phone lost...etc mb its all God's decision for me to stop thinking of that "PIECE OF ROCK"

YESTERDAY....
i've reinstalled my msn = =U
and ofcz i've been wasting time chatting allot = =U
one of the chat however is not a wasteful as it seems...

i've got the chance to talk to "the ROCK"
a whole night~
so i can say i've moved on...

we both moved on...
we both get to know each other more....
we both get to see what the other part is thinking....
we both get to hear each other's voice again....

all these while, my belief....
if u wanna get paid, u must put in efforts!
harder ur efforts, greater ur wages!
but this indeed a different thingy...
in the L world, nothing can be expected...
even when u've put all your might, all your effort, you might get urself into troubles...

but it seems to have not effecting me...
move on? nah... back to the future ^__^

trip to cyberjaya mmu campus closed...

2009-11-21T18:17:00.000-08:00

yesterday......
was really a wonderful trip!!
met allot of good and nice people~
n i never knew ah kam so 38!

donno whether they managed to take photos about wat we did yesterday XD

it really gave me a very warmth feeling....
a feeling of family members that is~

hard to find one in these days....
politics sucks!

a hah~ thought that i might be able to make it into final at the first thought~
but God really warned me about being proud this time ^__^
when im playing my semi final...
what im thinking is only to win him to win to win him~
hah!
such idiot thoughts~

its total different from what my motive of playings are : BE HAPPY because im playing one of my facourite sports~
and of cause... i never enjoy my game with patrick =___=U

i really like the game played with kokfull!
omg really felt happy and satisfied and thankful for playing with him!
honestly!!
a tribute to our 4th encounter before graduated MMU!!

really hope to go for another cyber closed next year!
not to forget...also to meet her up ^__^

till the next post~
i'll be posting photos if there's any ^__^

Things that girls don't realize....

2009-09-01T17:28:00.000-07:00

1. Guys are more emotional than you think, if they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer than you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

2. Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

8. Guys don't care how gorgeous you are, if you're a bitch Goodbye.

9. Giving a guy a hanging message like 'You know what?!..uh...nevermind..' would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

10. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

11. Guys are very open about themselves.

12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

14. Guys love you more than you love them.

15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole hell of a lot.

16. No matter how much guys talk about butts and boobs, personality is key.

17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, 'Please come and listen to me.'

23. ,b>If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.

25. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

27. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

32. Not all guys are jerks. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn't mean he represents ALL of them.

33. They love it when girls talk about their boobs. haha it's true..

34. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

35. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

36. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.

37. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

38. Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into his life.

lost....

2009-07-29T17:28:00.001-07:00

Got this weird feeling...
why everytime setting or changing times at the last minute!
the appointment or the praise and worship session?
the parcel I'll need to get it to Anne and promised Phoe to meet up on Saturday...
but why suddenly the time was changed to 3:30pm? it's at the middle of the whole day!
i can't simply go in the morning or later after the practice because of the time!
if there's changes for sure it can be changed one more time?

colossions 4 :6
- let your conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to
answer everyone...

but now I really don't know how to manage my time...
is this a test for me Lord Jesus?
to choose between your missions and my relationship and other Anne's interview?

Please grant me wisdom to choose in within oh Lord....
haiz.....

感激月亮 , 否定太陽

2009-06-10T22:13:00.000-07:00

"被照顧到無微不至的人反而不會感恩，

因為當白天夠亮，太陽就是多餘的> > "。

有一則猶太故事說，有一天，有人問一位老先生，

太陽和月亮哪個比較重要。
那位老先生想了半天，

回答道：「是月亮，月亮比較重要。」
為什麼呢？
「因為月亮是在夜晚發光，

那是我們最需要光亮的時候，

而白天已經夠亮了，
太陽卻在那時候照耀。」
你或許會笑這位老先生糊塗，

但你不覺得很多人也是這樣嗎？
每天照顧你的人，你從不覺得有什麼，

若是陌生人這樣對你，你就認為他人真好；
你的父母、妻子或先生一直付出，

你總覺得理所當然，甚至還有得嫌；
一旦外人為你做出類似行為，

你就受寵若驚，你就會很感激。
這不是跟「感激月亮，否定太陽」一樣糊塗嗎？

有個女孩跟媽媽大吵了一架，氣得奪門而出，

決定再也不要回到這個討厭的家了!

一整天，她都在外面閒逛，

肚子餓得咕嚕咕嚕叫，

但偏偏又沒帶零用錢出來，

可又拉不下臉回家吃飯。

一直到了晚上，她來到一家麵攤旁，

聞到了陣陣的香味，真是好想吃一碗，

但身上又沒帶錢只能不住的吞口水。
忽然，老闆親切的問：「小姐，妳要不要吃麵啊？」

她不好意思的回答：「嗯！可是……我沒有帶錢……」

老闆聽了大笑：「哈哈，沒關係，今天就算老闆請客吧！」
女孩簡直不敢相信自己的耳朵，她坐下來。

不一會兒，麵來了，她吃得津津有味，

並說：「老闆，你人真好！」
老闆說：{哦？怎麼啦？}

女孩接著回答：「對啊！我們素不相識，你卻對我
那麼好，不像我媽，

根本不了解我的需要和想法，真氣人呢！」
老闆又笑了：「哈，小姐，我才不過給妳一碗麵而已，

妳就這麼感激我，
那麼妳媽媽幫妳煮了二十幾年的飯，

妳不是更應該感激她嗎？」
被老闆這麼一講，女孩頓時有如大夢初醒，

眼淚瞬間奪眶而出！
顧不得還剩下的半碗麵，立刻飛奔回家。

才到家門前的巷口，就遠遠的看到媽媽，

焦急的在門口四處張望，
她的心立刻揪在一起！

有一千句、一萬句的對不起想對媽媽說。
還沒來得及開口，只見媽媽已迎了上前：

「唉呦！妳一整天跑去那裡了啊？
嚇死我了！來，進來把手洗一洗，吃晚飯了。」
這天晚上，這個女孩才深刻體會到媽媽對她的愛。

太陽一直都在，人就忘了它給的光亮，當親人一直都在，
人就會忘了他們給的溫暖；

一個被照顧到無微不至的人
反而不會去感恩，

因為白天已經夠亮了，太陽不是多餘的嗎？

Clip of the song "si"

2009-05-25T22:06:00.000-07:00

this is our song during MICROS song composing competition at mmu..

hope that u guys will like it...
although it is not in its nicest and best performed.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LAunBsGooqU

有一天我老了，也會...

2009-05-25T21:52:00.000-07:00

記得在花蓮門諾醫院長廊上看見的宣導海報：

「記得寶寶是一歲又...個月長第一顆牙齒，

卻不記得父親最後一顆牙是什麼時候掉的。」

「有一天我老了，也會打電話給你們說：
『兒子啊！要不要回來？我烤了蛋糕哦，帶孩子回來吧！』

如果兒子回答我：
『蛋糕到處有得賣，我今天沒空啦！』

what will be your feeling then?

你的決定滅了誰

2009-05-15T09:46:00.000-07:00

虽然只是一个游戏，但做完后让我深受启发，建议大家在做完之后交流一下看法。

逐题完成，想好答案再继续往下看!

问题一：如果你知道有一个女人怀孕了,她已经生了八个小孩,其中有三个耳朵聋,两个眼睛瞎,一个智能不足,而这女人自己又有梅毒,请问,你会建议她堕胎吗?

ern 好的，我大概猜到你的答案了，只有两种选择 =)

请先不要告诉我答案，继续下面一题

问题二：现在要选举一名领袖,而你这一票很关键。下面是关于这三位候选人的一些事实:

候选人A：跟一些不诚实的政客有往来,而且会咨询占星学家。他有婚外情,是一个老烟枪,每天喝8─10杯的马丁尼。

候选人B: 他过去有两次被解雇的记录,睡觉睡到中午才起来,大学时吸过鸦片,而且每天傍晚会喝一夸特的威士忌。

候选人C: 他是一位受勋的战争英雄,素食主义者,不抽烟,只偶尔喝一点啤酒。从没有发生过婚外情。

请问你会在这些候选人中选哪一个?

如果方便，请把你的答案写在一张纸头上，然后再看下面的解释。

好，先公布第二题的答案吧

候选人A是富兰克林﹒罗斯福,
候选人B是温斯顿﹒丘吉尔,
候选人C是亚道夫﹒希特勒。

你是不是为世界人民选择了希特勒?那你会建议这位妇女堕胎吗?

先说我自己的答案，作为受计划生育优生优育教育多年的人，我会建议那位母亲堕胎。你是不是跟我的建议一样?

那么你杀了贝多芬,她是贝多芬的母亲。

吓一跳吧?

本来你认为很好很人道主义的答案, 结果却扼杀了贝多芬、创造了希特勒?

这样的结果, 真的很令人错愕!

我们认为有好品格的人, 不一定是一个贤君而我们所认为的伟人, 也不一定是品格高尚的人…..

值得我们深思……

所以，请不要用既定的价值观来思考事物
。
。
。
题目做完了，你有什么comments?

情乃？

2009-04-13T17:45:00.000-07:00

“总算舍得放手了……
总算舍得看开了……
总算舍得承认了……
总算舍得离开了……”

这些话相信大家都听过吧……

人是感情动物，
打从人开始会思考起
每做一样事情都会与情感有关…
喜。怒。哀。乐。
更是人与人之间不可或缺的品仪

比方说，
一岁孩童当他得不着他想要的玩具时，会抛、打、哭、闹！
十岁小学生得到好东西时会和朋友炫耀
二十几岁青年会为情自杀
五六十岁会为后半生烦恼
七八十岁……没什么了解^^

常常听人说要把真、善、美做全;
要成为一个有权有钱的成功人士。
可是……
为什么却没有多人能实现？
个人认为的答案：
* 情感大过理智

所以，
1）应不应该把情与感分开？

2）做人应不应该全靠理智？

3）人与人之间需要理智逻辑还是感情重要？

看情况吧^^

。分手季节雨纷纷。

2009-04-07T13:08:00.000-07:00

2 年啦……
月复一月
年复一年

虽然已是过去式，
但我必定还在她心中留下了痕迹。

如果说是那个人愚昧痴情，
那么我可以清楚地告诉她，
他没，

因为我从来没发觉我原来那么的在乎她。

也许这辈子真的不能一起度过了
那就等来生吧……
真的希望能和他白头偕老……
（一厢情愿的）

问世间情为何物，
直叫人生死相随。

谢谢你的温柔和体贴……

过去与现在

2009-04-06T06:25:00.000-07:00

遗憾

词曲创作比赛又圆满结束了……
可是对我来说一点都不圆满……
一开始怎么会那么粗心大意……
明明决定开始前无论要重始……
可是却在最后一线时间忘了……

一点都怪不得人
一点都不能伤心
一点都不能失望

安慰

过了就算了？
当教训吧？
拿个经验？
哎……两个字……安慰！

不知所措

第三年的失败……
我真的感觉自己越来越没天分了……
无助无力无毅力了……

12 Ways To Know That You Love Someone……………

2009-04-06T06:20:00.000-07:00

TWELVE:
You talk with him/her late at night and when you go to bed you still think of him/her.

ELEVEN:
You walk really slowly when you are with him/her.

TEN:
You don't feel Ok when he/she is far away.

NINE:
You smile when you hear his/her voice.

EIGHT:
When you look at him/her,you do not see other people around you..You see only him/her.

SIX:
He/She is everything you want to think.

FIVE:
You realise that you smile every time you look at him/her.

FOUR:
You would do anything to see him/her.

THREE:
While you have been reading this, there was a person in your mind all the time.

TWO:
You've been so busy thinking of that person that you didn't notice that number SEVEN is missing.

ONE:
You are going to check above if that's true and now you are silently laughing to yourself

in fact.....its only my experience when im thinking of pei xing...
haiz.....
do pray for me

What a dad told his son after failure...

2009-04-05T18:46:00.000-07:00

還是有兩個機會 　

「能解決的事，不必去擔心；不能解決的事，擔心也沒用。」

希望大家在努力與忙碌之餘,也能換個角度去看待事情..... .

有個年輕人，屆逢兵役年齡，抽籤的結果，正好抽中上上籤，

最艱苦的兵種—海軍陸戰隊。

年輕人為此鎮日憂心重重，幾乎已到了茶不思、飯不想的地步。

年輕人深具智慧的祖父，

見到自己的孫子這付模樣，便尋思要好好開導他—

老祖父：「孩子啊，沒什麼好擔心的。

當了海軍陸戰隊，到部隊中，還有兩個機會，

一個是內勤職務、另一個是! 外勤職務。

如果你分發到內勤單位，也就什麼好擔心的了！」

年輕人問道：「那，若是被分發到外勤單位呢？」

老祖父：「那還有兩個機會，一個是留在本島，

另一個是分發外島。

如果你分發在本島，也不用擔心呀！」

年輕人又問：「那，若是分發到外島呢？」

老祖父：「那還是有兩個機會，一個是後方，

另一個是分發到最前線。

如果你留在外島的後方單位，也是很輕鬆的！」

年輕人再問：「那，若是分發到最前線呢？」

老祖父：「那還是有兩個機會，一個是站站衛兵，平安退伍；

另一個是會遇上意外事故。

如果你能平安退伍，又有什麼好怕的！」

年輕人問：「那麼，若是遇上意外事故呢？」

老祖父：「那還是有兩個機會，一個是受輕傷，可能送回本島；
另一個是受了重傷，可能不治。如果你受了輕傷，

送回本島，也不用擔心呀！」

年輕人最恐懼的部分來了，他顫聲問：「那……若是遇上後者呢？」

老祖父大笑：

「若是遇上那種情況，你人都死了，還有什麼好擔心的？

倒是我要擔心，那種白髮人送黑髮人的痛苦場面，可不是好玩的喔！」

人生擁有的，是不斷的抉擇。

端看您是用什麼態度，去看待這些有賴您決定的無數機會。

能夠綜觀每件事情、每個問題的正反兩面(或許有更多面)，

您將發現，內心最深沉的恐懼，

也在所有狀況明朗了解之後，將會自行化為烏有。

PS.您也有兩個機會

friendship or love will prevails?

2009-04-03T03:31:00.000-07:00

First of all..
If someone whom you're treating him well tells out the things you shared to him,
will he still a friend of yours?

For me, i prefer friendship than a girl whom we both getting interest in...
unless she's my girl then it's different thing!

and yet, if i was treated in betrayal then i suppose that that person would not be a friend anymore...

what is a friend?
-is someone where you won't feel shy when you both are doing stupid things together
-is someone that will share and borrow his or her ears to you whenever you need one
-is someone who will care about you
-is someone who will forgive you at instance
-is someone who will give out helping hands and counts nothing
-is someone who will be frank to each others

but that were the explanations that defined by human beings from their experiences...
the actual meaning?
friends equals to understanding.....

~lovely seasons~ where my plan is ^^

2009-04-01T20:22:00.000-07:00

1月14日日记情人节
Diary Day

新的一年，在日记中把对喜欢的人的表白和计划写出，在心中撒下爱的种子。

2月14日传统情人节
Valentine's Day

据西方传统，喜欢他就送他巧克力，行动要快噢。因为他不止只会收到你的巧克力。

3月14日白色情人节
White Day

他喜欢你吗？还是他只喜欢吃巧克力？送出巧克力一个月后，女生就能收到同样喜欢自己的男生送的白色糖果。吃颗糖果感觉真甜蜜。

4月14日糖果情人节
Candy Day

爱情开始萌芽，患得患失的心情就像吃着柠檬口味的糖果般又酸又甜。

5月14日玫瑰情人节
Rose Day

在一起一段时间了，他是真的爱你吗？他是你寻找的另一半吗？表白一下吧！不好意思？没关系！只在今天买玫瑰给对方就ok啦！

白色：一般朋友
黄色：知己
红色：爱人
(你一定会送红色的^^)

6月14日亲亲情人节
Kisses Day

你也收到他的红玫瑰了？我闪人！因为你们马上要kiss了！今天看到别人在kiss?不用回避，因为今天是Kisses Day。

7月14日银色情人节
Silver Day

传统习俗是用银戒订婚。今天你们去买一对戴在手上，作为甜蜜心情的见证。

8月14日绿色情人节
Green Day

相爱的人们成双成对地去郊游，爬山游水感受自然，就像他们要携手走过爱情一样。

9月14日相片情人节
Music and Photo Day

练久的情歌今天终于登场了，虽然五音不全，但用心听会有会心的笑容。用相机拍下这灿烂又充满甜蜜的笑容吧！

10月14日葡萄酒情人节
Wine Day

烛光下晃动着深红色的葡萄酒，爱情也一样要用心慢慢地品味。

11月14日电影情人节
Orange and Movie Day

今晚有空吗？一起去看场电影吧！手牵手一起去电影院，记得买橙汁噢！

12月14日拥抱情人节
Hugging Day

一年了，你们仍然相爱，你看天空闪烁着星星，而你们相拥在一起，希望永远停留在这一刻。。。。。。

~ApRiL FO.oL EvE~

2009-03-31T08:44:00.000-07:00

~BIG DAY coming soon~

The Song Composing Competition (SCC) is on the 5th April and is coming soon...
today is 31st March...okay its 1st April....
but......today is only the 1st day that our practice was done^^
thank God that everything is still smooth although some part is not satisfiable...

but I do believe that practice made perfect ^^

1st practice ~ 1st step ~ 1st encounter

Today,
not only is the 1st day for our practice......
it is the first day that I am able to talk to her......
and I'm totally don't know what happened to me = =ll
unable to talk smoothly....unable to play my piano well....and my brain was total screwed up and jammed....when she's besides me!! OMG
anyway, thought of inviting her to law night or prom night....
but she said only one phrase that stopped me when Alvin asked her, "I'm not going this year"

Personally, I do feel that I should move forward and get over from my past asap....
2 years since and yet I still can't forget about my past.....

nah....
as what the idioms said
"mEn should put their own professions first in place instead of love and marriage"
even though I'm not really into it....
hmmmm.....
should make my move fast to try getting her attentions ^^
wish me luck^^

thanks for viewing ^^
regards,
yeefan

10 ways tat how a Guy should LuV GirlS ^o^

2009-03-31T08:32:00.000-07:00

男人疼女人的十种方式

1、当你爱上一个女子的时候，一定要大声的告诉她。女孩很矜持，同时容易没有安全感。如果你爱她，就告诉她，多说几遍也没有关系的。"我爱你"三个字，女孩是永远都不会听厌的。当你已经不爱她的时候，不要伤害她，男人可以尽量不要伤害女人，宁可把过错都推在自己身上，也不要说是因为不爱了。女人的心是很脆弱的，容易受伤而不容易恢复。你们已经很相爱的时候，不要以为老夫老妻了，就不要甜言蜜语和浪漫了。女人终究是小女人。任何女人都无法抵挡温柔的男人的。

　　
2、男人有自尊，女人也有，不要介意有时候女人为了在朋友间的小小的虚荣心，那是对你有自信，所以才希望你比别人强。

　　
3、她在逛街的时候，不论你有多累，有多不想看着她一套一套的衣服的试穿，也不要有任何的不耐烦，因为女人的天性是逛街购物，而和心爱的人一起逛街，更是体现你爱心的时刻，虽然你的任务是劳力和财富的支出，但是看到女人眉飞色舞的神态，你应该觉得这是值得的。

　　
4、女人都是需要陪的，不要总是为了自己朋友，兄弟的邀请，不是喝酒，就是打牌，偶尔去去消遣是可以的，但是女人依然要陪。处理好两者的关系，总是有益无害的。

　　
5、女人喜欢为自己心爱的人洗衣做饭，帮你妥当的安排好一切，那是爱你的表现，那是不是有时候你也下厨做一顿让女人也高兴一下，偶尔的惊喜是促进双方感情的有效方法。

　　
6、当一个女人告诉你，"我很坚强，你不要为我担心"的时候，你一定要注意，女人的坚强都是为了男人才这样的，通常来说，女人是柔弱的，当她变坚强的时候或许就是离开你的时候了。所以任何时候都要很宠女人，把她们当宝贝或小孩一样。

　　
7、不要让女人在感情上绝望，当一个女人对感情绝望的时候，也是最难改变决定的时候了。任何时候，都不要伤害女人，女人受不起伤害。

　　
8、爱一个女人，就是要宠她，爱她，捧在手心怕跑了，含在嘴里怕化了。

　　
9、女人其实要求的很简单，只要一个爱她的男人就够了。男人在追求事业的同时，分一点点的认真来对待爱情，女人会用一生的感情来回报。

　
10,给女人一个温暖的家, 让她累的时候可以回家.